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Obituary - Lola J. Longo

Lola J. Longo

Date of Passing: January 1st, 2010

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Lola J. Longo, 59, of Utica, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, January 1, 2010 at her home. She was born July 9, 1950, in Utica, the daughter of the late Mariano J. (Moe) and Mary F. Parisi Longo and was a graduate of T.R. Proctor High School. For many years, Lola was employed with Oneida County Family Court and was currently employed with New York State Family Court. Lola had a deep love for animals and a strong passion to help stray cats. She was always willing to lend a helping hand to any family member or friend who needed her and was the "best mother in the world" to her daughter, Kim. Lola loved her family, and deeply missed her father, Moe, and is now reunited with him. She is survived by her devoted daughter, Kim Intino of Montgomery Village, MD, and her boyfriend, Frank Nibley; her step mother, Angela Pedone Longo of Utica; her aunts, Joann Longo of Utica and Mary Parisi of VT, formerly of Utica; two special cousins, Carolyn McAleese of Utica and Robin McAleese of Oswego, and her two daughters, Hana and Kaya; her former son-in-law, Al Zito of Utica; her former husband, Mark Intino of Las Vegas, NV, and his family; and her best friend, Becky LoPiccolo. Lola also cherished her many friends from St. Anthony Street and her co-workers at Family Court. Lola was predeceased by her beloved grandmother, Mary Longo; and her aunts and uncles, Marie Cochrane, Frances and Robert McAleese and Joseph Parisi. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday morning at 9:30 at St. Mary of Mt. Carmel/Blessed Sacrament Parish, Utica. There are no calling hours, however the family will receive visitors at the conclusion of the Mass in the church vestibule. Arrangements are with the Bentz & Amodio Funeral Service, Inc., Utica/New Hartford.


Dear Kim, I just read about your Mom today. She had been in my thoughts. We worked together at Hamilton Digital. She was a wonderful lady. So sorry for your loss, honey.

I have a warm memory of a beautiful 6th grade girl that I would run out to greet as she walked by my house on her way home every day after school. Being typical schoolkids, neither of us would admit we had crushes on each other, and, like with most of these "never-to-be" fleeting childhood romances, we moved on and the years went by. For some unclear reason, I was thinking of her today but sadly discovered that she was gone. Perhaps Lola was letting me know that she was taking one last walk by my house to see if I still remembered her. Yes,Lola, I do.
John D Noti

I was so saddened to learn of your mom's death Kim, we fed alot of stray cats together while in family court and I just yesterday learned of her death. I will greatly miss her.

Kimmy...I am so sorry. Wish I could have been there with you. Know I love you, and I'm here for you. Take care of you!!
Deanna Skoczen

Kim: So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
James Hettinger

Kim: Heartfelt condolences. I wish I could be there. I am so sorry. All my love!
Glenn C Miller

This former St. Anthony Street neighbor is shocked to hear of the loss of Lola. Kim, I am very sorry for your loss.
Cynthia S'Doia

Kim i am so sorry for your loss. I knew your mom a long time.
mariruth azzarito

Kim, I'm so so sorry.
Sue Farinato

Dear Kim and family and friends, I am so sorry to learn of you Mom's death. You and all your Mom's family and friends are in my thoughts. Regards, Maggie
Maggie Brasted

Kim, I am so sorry for your loss and have you in my thoughts during this difficult time. Of course I didn't know your mom but she must have been an amazing woman to raise such a great daughter.
Amanda Arrington

Kim--It was a great shock to learn of your Mom's death. I knew her many years through Family Court. I especially remember how devoted she was to animal welfare, even feeding the wild cats around Union Station when Family Court was headquartered there. She will be missed.
John Koslosky

Kim, I am so very sorry to hear of your mom's sudden passing. My thoughts are with you. Hugs, Vicki
Vicki Stevens

Dear Kim, I was so saddened to hear about this. I had such a good time with your mother when we were together at Cafe M. My heart goes out to you and my thoughts are with you. Luv, Pat
Pat Cunningham

Kim, We were so sorry to learn of your Mom's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Claudette and Ray
Claudette & Ray Ferrone

Kim, I am so very sorry to hear about your Mom. Believe me when I say, memories kept close at heart is a sense of comfort you will carry with you always. If you ever need an ear, you know I will always be here for you. God Bless, Luv ya, Annemarie
Annemarie Dutcher

Joann and family - Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Nick & Mary Parrotta
Nick & Mary Parrotta

We knew Lola back in High School, She was a great person. We Will never forget her. We are so sorry for your loss...Andy & Linda Convertino
Andy & Linda Convertino

Kim, we were so shocked to hear of your Mom's passing. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Hold on to all your special and wonderful memories of your Mom--that will certainly help you deal with your loss!! Love, prayers and our deepest sympathy to you and family.
Dominick &Sara Pepe

Lola will be missed immensely at work. She always liked the "Brian talks" that I gave people she had difficulty with. She was a true friend. Prayers and sympathies go out to her family.
Brian Warcup

Kim, It's been a while since I've seen your Mom. We worked together at HDC when you were a child. She always loved you and always wanted the best for you. We shared so many good laughs. Your Mom had a great sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you, Lorrie
Lorrie Sullivan

Kim, I was so shocked to hear of your mother's passing. I will remember all the great dinners we had at Aunt Mary's house together. Her favorite was Aunt Mary's pork roast. I am very sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Mary
Mary F. Bronga

Kim, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother, Lola. From what I knew of her, she was a great person as well as a great mother. May God watch over you during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love always, Jude Anne
Jude Anne Gossin

We are so sad to hear of the news of Lola's death. What a beautiful and engaging person she was. She truly will be missed more than words can say down in Family Court. She made it a joy to go down there and was always ready to help. God be with her always. Elizabeth & Michael Morschauser
Elizabeth Morschauser