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Obituary - Barbara A. Hughes

Barbara A. Hughes

Date of Passing: November 11th, 2009

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In memory of Mrs. Hughes, kindly consider the Waterville Area Volunteer Ambulance Corps or the Clifford J. Fulmer American Legion Post #92.

Barbara A. Hughes, 78, of Waterville, the matriarch of the Hughes family, passed away Wednesday, November 11, 2009 at Faxton-St. Luke's Healthcare Center, with her loving family by her side. She was born April 26, 1931, in Utica, the daughter of the late Raymond and Mary Huertson Stephenson and received her education in Frankfort Center and Proctor High School. On July 14, 1956, in Waterville, she married Walter J. (Spook) Hughes. Mrs. Hughes was employed at several area restaurants until her retirement, and especially enjoyed her years at the Sangerfield Inn. Mrs. Hughes was a member of St. Bernard's Church and the Clifford J. Fulmer American Legion Post #92 Auxiliary. Barbara was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother and was always putting others' needs before her own. She enjoyed flower gardening, birds, dancing, a good party, shuffleboard, playing cards and spending time with her family and friends. Mrs. Hughes was also an avid Yankees and Giants fan. She is survived by her husband of 53 years, Walter; three sons and two daughters-in-law, Earl Hughes, Walter, Jr. and Audrey Hughes and Robert Hughes, Sr., all of Waterville and Linda Hughes of Deansboro; a daughter and son-in-law, Patricia and Michael Lupia of Clinton; eight grandchildren, Tonya, Erin, Dylan, Nicole, Douglas, Alexandra, Ciara and Robert, Jr.; a great grandson, James Walter; two sisters, Mary Powers of Cold Brook and Edna Hopkins of Fair Haven, MA; a brother and sister-in-law, John and Betty Stephenson of Deansboro; and many special brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews and friends. She was predeceased by her son, Douglas Hughes; two brothers, Walt and Tim Stephenson; and a sister, Minnie Inman. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday at 10 am at St. Bernard's Church, Waterville. Interment will be in Green Lawn Cemetery, New Hartford. Calling hours are Sunday afternoon from 1-4 at the Kloster-Northrop & Bentz Funeral Home, 210 E. Main St., Waterville.

Condolences:

To Spook and the rest of the Hughes family,my sincere condolances on the passing of such a wonderful person.
mark a.jamIEson

To Spook and the rest of the Hughes family, My sincere condolances on the passing of such a wonderful person. I first met Barb when I was a little boy and she was a waitress at the Purple Cow. She was an amazing person and the world will be a little less bright now.
Gary Eckerson

Dear Spook and Children- Our families go back a long way and I will always remember the times we had together. Please know my thoughts are with all of you at this very heart breaking time.
Pat McNamara Hinman

Dear Spook and Children- Our families go back a long way and I will always remember the times we had together. Please know my thoughts are with all of you at this very heart breaking time.
Pat McNamara Hinman

To the entire Hughes/Stephenson family, I was very saddened to hear that a very special part of your family has left this world. Aunt Barb as I knew her was a very special lady. She will be missed by many. Her and Dougie have been reunited in heaven and are looking down on us. Spook keep all those good times in your dreams because you know she is with you in your heart and soul. May she rest in peace. Bob (Bubbles)
Bob Ollerenshaw

Uncle Walt,Walter,Earl,Robert, and Patty..my thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time. Aunt Barb was one of a kind and will be deeply missed. I feel blessed that she was my Godmother. May she rest in peace.
Kathy (Frair) Estrada

RIP Aunt Barb.
Cori Hughes

Our deepest sympathy to the Hughes family--you had to know Barb to love her & she was loved by many !! I dont think there will ever be another quite like Barb...she certainly was the matriarch of the family and with that she had something to be proud of..Barb lived a great life, and she did it HER WAY !!! Barb will be missed, but never forgotten....RIP
Wayne & Barb Shauger

My sincere condolences to the Hughes family. Barbara was truly one of a kind.
Jill Eisenhut

Spook and Family, Most sincere sympathy to you and your family. Dolores Wines Terry and Chris Godfrey
Dolores (Godfrey) Wines

spook and family i am so sorry to hear about it my aunt shirley ditch used to be good friend with here my dad new here son and the whole family from ditch family
frances

Spook & Family - Though words, however gentle, cannot take your loss away, may I express my sympathy and let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mary Beth Rostiser

On Wed. evening, after I had talked with Robert, I celebrated Mass for Aunt Barb for a peaceful and painless death. During that Mass she fell asleep in the Lord. EVERY relative has a ton of Aunt Barb Stories. But all I can say is she was tough, fun, loving, and - for me - the most supportive adult in my childhood world. I can never hear a "polka" without thinking of dancing with her. God rest her soul. And God bless Uncle Spook, Earl, Walter, Robert & Patty...and all those who knew & loved her. With much love and prayers, Dennis
Fr. Philaret (Dennis) Littlefield

Uncle Spook, Walter, Earl, Robert, Patty & Linda, Our thoughts are with you all during this difficult time. Aunt Barb was a wonderful person, and will truly be missed by many many people. We have so many great memories of those summer vacations long ago spent with the Hughes family. I'll never forget the first time Cary met Aunt Barb and she entertained him with the story of how she used to whack us all with her slippers when we were out of line, and then she proceeded to take her slipper off and whack him right then! What an introduction to the family! I am sorry we can't be there to pay our respects, but please know that you are all in our hearts and thoughts. Hold on to the memories. Love, Janice, Cary & Katie
Janice & Cary Wald

WHAT DO YOU SAY???SHE WILL BE MISSED,MY CONDOLENCES TO ALL OF YOUS!!
MAGOO